2 Years With Our Angel

Today we celebrate our 2-year adoption anniversary with Eden Hope. I can't believe it's been 2 years! I remember every detail like it was yesterday.

I leave for South Africa tomorrow so I don't have lots of time to write, but I couldn't let this day go by without at least posting something. Where do I begin? How do I articulate such a miracle?

I remember walking into that sweltering hot Civil Affairs Office in Wuhan, China with butterflies in my stomach. Would she come to me? How would I know what to do? How do I communicate to this little stranger how much I already love her? So many questions...and yet such certainty. God had moved so many mountains to put us in that room at that moment for that baby girl. It wasn't the labor or delivery room I had imagined in my girlhood dreams of becoming a mommy. And yet there I was...and then, I saw her for the first time.

She looked so lonely...so confused. Nothing prepared me for the deep sadness in that little girl's heart those first days...the grief...the running to the door of the hotel and looking at me pleading for her "mama"...not knowing I was right there...the way she would gather all of her little treasures she brought with her, not knowing I had sent her those toys and blanket, and would rock back and forth with that horrible moaning cry, refusing to be comforted until she was "finished."

And nothing prepared me for the miracle of the day her foster mom came to the hotel and we met her (secretly and by "accident"). I've never been more sure of anything as when I handed my baby back to the only mama she had ever known so they could say goodbye. In that moment there was no room for jealousy or fear...I knew Eden loved her and it just couldn't be about me. And as that precious Chinese woman pointed to me and told Eden, "Mama" those walls began to slowly crumble. Healing began on that day.

I've made a lot of mistakes over the past 2 years...but motherhood is the most incredible journey. Watching this little person grow up knocks the wind out of me sometimes. She is the funniest little creature I have ever met...and the most loving. She is so brave. So brave. To love again so deeply...what lessons I learn from her. Gene and I sit in awe of the greatness of God. Parenthood is like having a front-row seat to His most incredible work. Most times in our busy-ness and routine we miss it...but every once in a while I will stop, and look, and see it...my prayer is that in the coming year, I will see Him more and more...and not take one moment for granted.

Love you all...here's a few photos of our sweet one...

The first photo we received of Eden in December 2006.

Another photo from the orphanage in January 2007.

Another picture from China in July 2007, right before we traveled.

Gotcha Day...July 23, 2007. This photo says it all...

Eden today...this one says it all, too!

Our Week in Birmingham

Hello all! We spent last week in Birmingham visiting friends, going to Eden's dr. appointment, and packing for my South Africa trip. It was a fun week.

Eden went to see a maxio facial prostheticist to see about getting a device to plug the 2 holes she still has behind her 2 front teeth from her cleft. These holes won't be repaired until she has permanent teeth. We had a great visit to the Dental School at UAB and the doctor was great. Eden had to do a mold of her top teeth and she did fantastic...no gagging or fit-pitching. They actually said she did better than most adults. The doctor said she does think she can make a device that will help with speech and with her being able to suck better and not having food escaping through her nose. We will go back in mid-August to try it on and see how it works.

I leave this Friday for a mission trip to South Africa. I will return on August 3rd. Gene has some fun Atlanta activities planned with Eden to help pass the time. She will also be going for a long visit with her Ja-Ja (my mom) from which I'm sure she'll return purely rotten!

I can't wait to share with you what I see and experience in Africa. Until then, here are some pictures of our week in Birmingham. Love you all!

Eden on her new big-girl bike...of course it's princesses.

Eden with her cousins...some of her favorite people on earth. From left: Hayden, Savannah and baby Camp.

My beautiful sister, Kelly, and her little man (who is finally sleeping through the night!!)

My blessing, my daughter. She is such a doll!

Eden with Hannah, my best friend Alisa's little angel.

Here is a sample of one kit that we will be giving out in South Africa. It contains 5 types of medicine, lip ointment, antibiotic ointment, soap, wash cloths, towels, bandages and cotton swabs. These will be given in a wash basin with a Bible in their language.

The Beach, A Flower Girl, and a New Home

Sorry it's been a while. I've spent the last week and a half unloading boxes. I have let go of the delusion that I'm not a pack-rat. Don't ask me why I want to keep my high school cheerleading jacket...but I just can't throw it away.

Anyway, I promised pictures, so this post includes some. We have moved to a suburb of Atlanta, as I mentioned in my last post. After a small delay in closing on our house in B'ham, we moved a little over a week ago in 2 U-haul trucks and a mini-van. Eden and Maggie (our chocolate lab) rode with me, along with the flat-screen TV, and Gene and his dad followed with the trucks. This was a hard move, as it was quick, out of state, and we were at the beach at a wedding the week before...but we finally made it.

We love the house we're renting, and even got some goodies delivered from our next-door neighbors today. We're settling in now, and even discovered that one of the families we traveled to China with when we adopted Eden lives here...and I have several sorority sisters from college in the area, too. It's nice to know people.

Eden is doing great. We are painting her room pink (per her request), and we ordered her a "big-girl bed" last week (twin bed). Eden's thought process and awareness of things continually amazes me. When we told her we were moving, she said, "Mommy, I think we need to write notes to all of our friends in Birmingham so they won't worry about us." Wow! The last time she moved, there were no goodbyes or ways to keep in touch. This move, needless to say, has been far less traumatic.

She did great as the flower girl in my brother's wedding. I must admit we did bribe her. It was on the beach, and on the way back down the aisle at the end of the ceremony she stopped and started picking up all of the flower petals to put back in her basket. That got a collective "Awwwww" from the crowd. When we practiced at home she always had to pick them up!

Here are some pictures from the wedding. I will post again soon. Love yall!

All dressed and ready for pictures.

The halo was so precious on her jet-black hair. And she kept it on!!!

See my baby shells?

The beautiful bride...my new sister-in-law Amy. My mom did the flowers on this arch...aren't they gorgeous!

Eden with her 2 great-grandmothers. Can you believe they are in their 80's???

Eden and cousin Camp. He's getting so big...4 1/2 months old.

Trying to be still for pictures.

Oh, one last little story. The day we were moving in, Eden's eye swelled shut...it looked bad and kept getting worse, even with benadryl. So I found a doc-in-the-box place and it was nothing, just an insect bite. Well, a couple of days ago she said, "Mommy, my finger hurts." I look down, and seriously it looked like it might die and fall off. It was so swollen and red. Well, apparently my child has an ant allergy we didn't know about. So yesterday she comes downstairs and says, "Mommy, I dressed myself. I'm going to hunt for ants." When I turned around, this is what I saw....

A Lot Going On...We're moving!

Okay, I am in stressed-out scramble mode. We got a contract on our house 2 weeks ago, just 16 days after putting it on the market. What I haven't shared up until this point is that we are moving to Duluth, GA (about 40 miles north of Atlanta). Gene has accepted the Communications Director position at Cross Pointe Church. We are very excited, but so sad to be leaving Birmingham, our friends, family and Church at Brook Hills family. It's a lot to process.

My brother is getting married this Saturday at the beach, and we leave tomorrow. Eden will be the flower girl (if she cooperates). We had planned to stay a week, but Gene is coming home early to be here for last-minute details because guess when we close...next Friday, the DAY after we return from the beach. Then we start moving Saturday.

So, in the last 2 weeks we've had to find a place to live in a whole new city. Crazy! We did find a great house to rent until we get a lay of the land. There is no way I'm going to be able to call or see everyone I want to sit down and hug before we move, but we will be back several times in July for doctor's appt., and mission trip training...I leave for Africa July 24th.

Even though it's been hectic, it is so obvious God is calling us to this new place and chapter in our ministry as a family. He has opened every door. It is bittersweet for sure. I told Gene what is going to happen is come about August I am going to be sitting in Georgia and finally realize that we moved and I'll probably just cry and cry...but I don't have time to process it now.

So, for now, we are up to our ears in bubble wrap and boxes while packing for vacation. Eden is confused and unnerved by the change. I know she'll be fine when she realizes this time when she moves mommy and daddy go with her. Please pray for her during this time. Any big change tends to trigger her insecurities. This is a good thing for her to learn that a house isn't home...family makes home.

Love you all...and I promise I'll be in touch!

Summer is Here!

Mother's Day Out has ended, school is out so my after-school childcare job has ended, and it's officially summer! I am looking forward to full lazy days at home, at the pool, at the library, and maybe even a few at the beach :0) Life gets so busy and I am really trying to discipline myself to set a more peaceful, laid-back pace for our home. Less seems like much more these days, as I watch our baby grow into a child right before my eyes. Sad and wonderful all at the same time. She is such a joy.

Why is it so hard to enjoy the unfathomable blessings God has given that are right in front of us...husband, daughter, roof overhead, clean water, food, tons of family and friends a phone call away, Bible, journal and a cup of coffee...why aren't these enough? Why, really? Do you wonder, too? Why the endless striving for more? Why the busy-ness? This question will be the focus of my time with God in the coming months...my head knows the answer, but I long to truly believe it with all my being and thus see it in practice daily, both in large and small ways.

On a lighter note, Eden is a hoot people! A hoot! We had "craft time" (I use that term loosely as I was in charge, not daddy) last week and below is the result...a princess crown.


We also had our 6-month cleft clinic appointment for Eden last week and got a great report. Let me just say I LOVE Dr. John Grant at Children's Hospital...he is amazing...and he hasn't even operated on her yet. Such a sensitive spirit and wonderful nature with children. The average age for the next surgery Eden needs (lip/scar revision) is 4 years old. She turns 4 in December. However, after looking at her and the amount of skin he has to work with around her nose he decided it's best to wait in her case until maybe 1st grade. And, one of her ear tubes is out but the eardrum is still moving so this indicates maybe we won't have to replace the tubes...yay! No surgeries for a while right now. The speech pathologist did recommend a dental device that can plug the holes in her gum line to help with speech development, so we're looking into that. It would fit into her mouth like a retainer and keep air from escaping through her nose when she says certain letters. The question is whether or not there is enough to anchor it since she's missing teeth and bone due to her cleft. We're working on getting an appointment with a dental/craniofacial prostheticist right now. Other than that, she is doing amazing.

Eden and I are heading to the beach for a few days this week with my mom, grandmother, and sister and her little one. Can't wait to get away with the girls. I'm sure I'll have tons of photos to share after our trip.

In other news, our house is still on the market. We'll see what happens with that. And, I am gearing up for my mission trip to South Africa in July. Lots of preparation I need to do (on my knees) for that trip. I'm hoping my world gets rocked as I minister to those with AIDS and their caregivers. Also, my brother is getting married at the beach on June 20th, so we're having a mini family reunion down there for a week. Looking forward to sunshine, sand, and time with family I don't get to see that much.

Hope you are all doing great! Love you all...

Mother's Day and More

I have several photos to catch you all up on. Before I get to that, I just wanted to share an excerpt from a book I bought for Eden the other day. It's called "Someday." It's a precious keepsake book, and a great reminder to cherish every moment with our little ones and not-so-little ones. Time is a gift, as is life and breath and every challenge these bring. Hope this encourages you, too.

"Sometimes, when you sleep, I watch you dream, and I dream too...
That someday you will dive into the cool, clear water of a lake.
Someday you will walk into a deep wood.
Someday your eyes will be filled with a joy so deep that they shine.
Someday you will run so fast and so far your heart will feel like fire.
Someday you will swing high - so high, higher than you ever dared to swing.
Someday you will hear something so sad that you will fold up with sorrow.
Someday you will call a song to the wind, and the wind will carry your song away.
Someday I will stand on this porch and watch your arms waving to me until I no longer see you.
Someday you will look at this house and wonder how something that feels so big can look so small.
Someday you will feel a small weight against your back.
Someday I will watch you brushing your child's hair.
Someday, a long time from now, your own hair will glow silver in the sun.
And when that day comes, love, you will remember me."

The question I ask myself today, "How do I want Eden to remember me?" Love you all! Here are some photos of the last couple of months.

Here's Eden with her Aunt Kelly and baby cousin Camp.

Eden sitting in my Mother's Day gift...some of the Vera Bradley luggage I've been wanting. I think we can guess the REAL gift, can't we? But I do LOVE my duffel bag and garment bag!!

A cute picture of Eden at our mommy/daughter trip to the zoo this spring.

At the zoo again, enjoying the spring weather and of course, a popsickle!

Riding the carousel at the zoo. Is that a happy face or what?

Eden at swim lessons...she LOVES her goggles!

She's a little fish! You should see her hold her breath...the teacher has to tap her head to get her to come up. She'll be swimming in no time!

South Africa Mission Effort

Hey everyone! Just wanted to post really quickly about my upcoming mission effort to South Africa. I am going July 24-August 3rd to provide hospice care to end-stage AIDS patients in the villages outside of Pretoria. I am co-leading a team of 20 from The Church at Brook Hills.

I am both excited and nervous about this trip. It is going to challenge me in a whole new way, as I have no training in the "medical" arena or the "hospice" arena (we will receive some training prior to going). But what I do have is a willing spirit and compassionate heart and a longing to share hope with those who likely have none. I long to be Christ to the "least of these." God's Word says whatever I do for the poor, needy and sick, I do for Christ Himself. What an honor to serve my Lord this way.

Please be in prayer for our team. The financial responsibility is $2,700 for this trip and I am trying to raise money to help offset the cost. I have sent out support letters to many and God is providing. I totally trust Him as money is no object to Him. I did want to ask you to pray about helping out. Every dollar makes a difference. Our goal is to pack our personal items in our carry-on so we can fill the 2 50-pound suitcases for each team member with supplies like hygiene items, wash cloths, towels, and medical supplies to ease their pain. If we do this, we will be taking around 2,000 pounds of supplies (give or take).

If you would like to contribute financially, you can post to this message and leave me your e-mail and I will get in touch with you. Contributions are tax-deductible if you make your check out to The Church at Brook Hills. Thank you for considering helping those suffering in Africa from the AIDS pandemic. They so desperately need our help. The deadline for turning in my money is May 25th so I don't have much time left.

My goal on this trip is just to love. To love those, both in word and deed, who are outcasts, shamed and hopeless. To let them know that my Redeemer lives. To let them know that they are loved by their Creator. To let them know it is impossible to out-sin God's grace. To let them know that they don't have to fear death. To let them know the wonderful truth of the Gospel. Pray for these precious people.

On another note, please pray for my daughter, Eden. This will be a huge test for us as I've never been away from her for more than 2 nights since we adopted her. I know God wouldn't be leading me to go on this trip if she wasn't ready for the separation. It's a whole different ballgame to leave the country for 10 days when you're a mommy. I know that by obeying Christ I AM doing what's best for my family. But that's gonna be hard to remember when I'm waving goodbye. I tear up just thinking about it. I just don't want her to be scared that I'm not coming back...the thought of that just kills me. Thank you for lifting her up!

Love you all!

A Quick Eden Funny

Often Gene, Eden and I will play American Idol (we're avid watchers of the show). Eden will get her little microphone and sing, I pretend to be Ryan Seacrest, and Gene impersonates Randy, Paula and Simon (I will shoot video of this soon and post, as it is a sight to behold).

Well, last night I heard Eden down the hall saying she wanted to play. Neither Gene or I were paying much attention. Then, through the echo of the hot pink microphone I hear Eden in her southern accent say, "Yo, yo dawg, that was pitchy."

So, the Mason home was roaring with laughter last night. Hope yours is too on a daily basis.

Love you all!

Recklessness

I read this quote on a blog yesterday and it punched me in the gut...so I thought I'd share. We all need a good gut-punching on a regular basis, don't you think? At least I do. I so easily grow weary and even apathetic to the truths of social injustice that I cannot see (or choose not to) on a daily basis. Just because I can't see it in suburban Birmingham doesn't absolve me from my responsibility to love and serve Christ and those He so desperately loves. Here's the quote:

"What, therefore, is our task today? Should I answer: "Faith, hope and love?" That sounds beautiful. But I would say - courage. No, even that is not challenging enough to be the whole truth. Our task today is recklessness. For what we Christians lack is not psychology or literature... we lack a holy rage - the recklessness which comes from the knowledge of God and humanity. The ability to rage when justice lies prostrate on the streets, and when the lie rages across the face of the earth... a holy anger about the things that are wrong in the world. To rage against the ravaging of God's earth and the destruction of God's people. To rage when little children must die of hunger, while the tables of the rich are sagging with food. To rage at the senseless killing of so many, and the madness of militaries. To rage against the lie that calls the threat of death and the strategy of destruction peace. To rage against COMPLACENCY. To restlessly seek that recklessness that will challenge and seek to change human history until it conforms to the norms of the Kingdom of God."
-Father Kaj Munk, 1944

I must admit I don't have a clue who Father Kay Munk is, okay? I just love the word "reckless." Most of the time this word conjures up negative thoughts and ideas to me. But when applied to attacking social injustice and loving the weak, poor and oppressed, it sends shivers down my spine. Don't over-think, don't take time to come up with silly excuses, just get busy chasing after Christ and loving people all along the way. Reckless abandon...I like it. Lord, help me live it.

My mom sent me this photo of Eden and her 2 cousins, Savannah and Camp.


What precious blessings from the Lord our children are. Daily I am reminded that every life God creates is equally precious to Him and created to glorify Him...regardless of race, social status, lifestyle, etc. Every barrier that divides us in the world, the Gospel shatters. We are all poor, helpless orphans until the Lord saves us by His grace.

If it was our child starving or dying of AIDS we would be more reckless, wouldn't we? Let us who have been blessed far beyond what we need begin to give like we have never considered before. That is my prayer for our family, and for the whole family of God.

Daily Life

Hey everyone! I haven't posted in a while. We've been so busy getting the house ready to sell. Lots of little projects to do here and there...and some big ones, too. Time seems to be flying by and I can't believe Eden is almost 3 1/2! In July we will celebrate 2 years home with her. Where does the time go?

I've been struggling a lot lately with my thoughts. Do you ever feel like time is slipping by unnoticed, or un-cherished? I've been feeling that way lately. I'm struggling daily to find the balance between my to-do list and making the most of every moment I'm granted with those I love. It's so easy to take people, and life-stages, for granted. I want my life to count, I mean really count, for eternity. I don't just want to raise good kids, go to church, read my Bible, etc. A "safe and happy" life appeals less and less to me lately. The "American Dream" sometimes feels more like a big joke. Why are we here, really? Why did God pour such grace into our lives? To live in nice houses, drive nice cars, gather in multi-million dollar church buildings each week while so many around the world don't even have food to eat? I seriously doubt it.

Eden brings such joy to our lives, but at the same time she is like the face and voice of those who can't help themselves in my life every minute of every day. It's like God won't let me forget, or ignore, the needs of the world anymore. Before we adopted her they were just statistics. But now, I've seen and tasted first-hand that I CAN make a difference...Eden is living proof of what God can do if we just offer ourselves to Him in faith and obey His command to help those who can't help themselves. When I see her life, her personality, her heart, where she came from and what she has become, I am humbled, overjoyed, and maybe most of all - convicted.

What am I spending my time, energy and resources on? These are gifts that God has entrusted to me...all I have is His. He is Lord over all. Is He pleased with my to-do list? There are practical choices to make each and every day. The house has to be cleaned, dishes washed, laundry done, food prepared, etc. This takes a lot of time and energy. BUT, is that an excuse to ignore my calling and chief purpose in life, the reason for which I exist...to make disciples of ALL nations? No, I don't think so. Obviously this looks different in our lives at different stages, but I just don't want to become so focused on my family that I ignore the needs of those who so desperately need what Christ has given to me. In the end, I think it is so important that I model for Eden what it looks like to serve others, even if it takes time or resources away from her sometimes. This balance is what I am struggling with. The Lord is teaching me so much.

Eden has such an awareness of the needs of the world I think because of her adoption. She knows that she did not always have a mommy and daddy, so to her the concept of needing is not so foreign an idea. I want to foster this awareness in her, not numb her to it by complacency and apathy. That is one of the main reasons we are adopting again so soon, and why I am leaving her for 10 days this summer to go to South Africa to minister to those dying of AIDS. We hope to start a home study later this year to adopt from Uganda, and I will be going to South Africa in July. I pray that Christ will receive glory from my life, both in the little things, and the big.

Laundry and Africa...who says we have to choose? Mommies can change the world...not just in their homes, but outside them as well. And as we make these tough choices and find this balance between family and the neediest, perhaps we will teach our children to love more deeply, live more sacrificially, be more grateful, be kinder, and discover the purpose for which they were created and loved by God. Maybe God didn't just give us children so we could love them, but so we could show them how to love others.

So now you know how my world is being rocked, right?

In closing, my sweet sister Kelly and her husband Matt were blessed with their own little disciple on Feb. 25th. My nephew, Camp Matthew, is so precious! Here are a couple of pictures of him! Love you all.

A Heavy Day

Today has been a hard day emotionally. Emme Grace's funeral was today. It was indeed a celebration of her life, and of God's grace - but so hard just the same. Her family's faith and choice to glorify our precious Lord amidst their indescribable suffering challenged and convicted me. My heart is heavy and yet full this evening. It's hard to describe the mix of emotions resulting from this little girl's sudden death.

On Monday night, I walked into Eden's room to find she and Gene sleeping in her rocking chair. I quickly made a mad dash for the camera, as it was such a precious scene to behold. Daddy and daughter resting all snuggled up. I think one of the reasons I have been so deeply affected by Emme Grace's death (I only met her 2 times) is because for the first time in my life, I could imagine it being my child. You know how when you hear of a tragedy like this you say, "I can't even imagine..." Well, today I could imagine.

Emme Grace's daddy read a letter written by him and his wife that told Emme's life story. Born in China, abandoned by birth mother for unknown reasons, taken to an orphanage, having surgery in China, 2 years of paperwork delays and waiting, God leading them to her, the first time they saw her photo, traveling across the world to bring her home, their fear she wouldn't bond to them, seeing her transform like a butterfly learning to love and trust them, being mommy to her dolls, warm hugs and sweet kisses, having to have her shoes lined up in a neat row, and her favorite song, "Jesus Loves Me." He really could have been describing my Eden.

Now please hear me, I know this is SO not about me. My heart aches for this precious family. And yet my mind keeps wandering to the "what ifs" and the reality that my child belongs to God. He created her, He literally handed her to us in the swealtering hot China sun on a July day that I remember every detail of...she is His. We are His. He is in charge. His ways are higher and wiser and beyond what I can comprehend. And He is good...always.

I know all of these things, but this week I have wrestled with these truths to the core of my soul. Somewhere along the way God reminded me of something. Way back when I was waiting and praying for Eden, I remember knowing so clearly that this adoption was not just about us getting a child...it was mostly about a little orphan girl in China getting a family.

That's what I walked away from the funeral reminded of and certain of today. Amidst the tragedy and grief is God's infinite grace broadcasted in the life of little Emme. Our natural inclination as humans is to wonder why God would bring the Forbes a child He knew would die in 11 short months. Why put them through that when there are so many "healthy" orphans waiting on adoption? Why, Lord? I think it's because God doesn't see any child as "more fit" or "more suitable" for His grace than another. Every life He creates is equally valuable and precious to Him. In His wisdom He saw Emme as worth all of the money, time and sacrifice her family paid, even though He would call her to Himself less than a year after He placed her in their arms. He made sure that one of the neediest spent her last days on earth surrounded by the love her heart had longed for and needed. He led a family to her that would pray for her, teach her about Him, and when the end of her life drew near sing hymns of praise to Him around her hospital bed. Oh what grace He lavished on this little girl, and on the family who had the privilege of being His hands and feet in her life.

So while I have no answers as to why God chooses to act in the way He does sometimes, I am learning to be content to trust in what I do know. He is good and His love endures forever. And I am reminded that none of us are guaranteed another day with those we love. When I think of the time, energy and resources I waste on temporary, frivolous things anger wells up in me. What am I doing?? And so my resolve is stronger to pour my life into my family, friends, and those who need whatever God has chosen to bless me with...talents, resources, whatever. Life is short and it is meant to be lived for Christ's glory, abundantly, freely and fully.

And to celebrate the joy God has granted in my life, I leave you with a photo of my sweet Eden. Thursday morning I was dropping her off at MDO and I turned around to this site. I am grateful today more than ever for the personality God gave her, and the joy and laughter He gives daily through her. Yes, she is my child, but she is also many times my teacher, reminding me of what really matters. Please continue to pray for Lauren and French Forbes and their 2 sons. The coming days will be so hard. Love you all!

Eden's Party and First Sleepover!

So it's late in coming, but I wanted to post some pictures of Eden's 3-year-old birthday party with her friends. Her birthday was Dec. 27 but we had her party Jan. 31st. It was at Head Over Heels Gymnastics where she takes classes each Tuesday. Her coach, Ms. Erin, did her party and she had a blast with 8 friends and family. She wore a special panda bear, big-girl leotard for the occasion. Here are some of my favorite photos.

Eden with Coach Erin

The obstacle course


Look at how much fun she's having!! That's her favorite girl friend Mia behind her.

Here's the gang. The party had a Dora the Explorer theme complete with a pinata. So fun!

Okay, one more thing. We've had a major victory at the Mason house this month. For those who've been following our blog since we adopted Eden, you may remember that sleep/nights have been the hardest struggle for Eden's transition into our family. It's been a roller coaster ride of ups and downs, trying new things, thinking we had it beat, and then more struggles. Basically, Eden has been in our room and/or bed for most of the time she's been home.

This means I honestly only slept well probably 5 nights in 2008...I'm not exaggerating. It's been hard. She spent only 1 night away from us in the 18 months she's been home....until last week, that is. About 4 weeks ago Eden finally started going down in her bed without any anxiety, and staying in her bed all night. She usually wakes up once and comes in our room, but I'm able to take her straight back to her bed where she stays until morning. This is huge for us!

Last week she went to my mom's for not one, but two nights and did great. She was not scared, anxious or nervous at all. She had a great time and even told me she wanted to stay 4 nights, which I nixed because I missed HER so much! This is such an answered prayer for us, as Eden's anxiety comes out at night. She HATES to be alone, as I'm sure many kids do. We tried everything and she was just unable to self-soothe at night.

You know what finally did the trick? Our dog. Yes, our 85-pound, gentle, sweet, chocolate lab Maggie sleeps in Eden's room with her now. She isn't alone if Maggie is with her, and she feels safe. That, along with a very regimented bedtime routine, closet light on, and praying over her every night has resulted in much better sleep for all of us...except maybe Maggie, who had to sacrifice her spot for the last 10 years for Eden. This is one of the many reasons I adore that sweet dog! Her silent, steady loyalty.

So, for all of you struggling with sleep issues...there is hope. My advice is to trust your instincts above what anyone else tells you and give your child what he/she needs, even if it doesn't fit with your preference or expectation (of course there is always balance in that)...if that fails, get a big, cuddly dog :0) Hope this encourages some of you.

Here's a picture of Eden painting cookies at her sleepover.

Check out her hairdo that she designed "all by" herself.

Well, I better run. Hope you are all well. Have a great day!

My Sweet Nephew Is Here!

I'm so proud to announce that my sister Kelly had her baby boy today. He was delivered via c-section at around 1:00 p.m. He weighed in at 8 pounds 4 ounces and is 20 3/4 inches long. Congratulations to Matt and Kelly...you are going to be GREAT parents! I love you. Here's the play-by-play for all you family and friends... Everyone is doing great and resting well.

Last photo as a family of two!

Grandmas and aunts stalking Matt and baby in the hall/waiting area.

Here they come! Look at Daddy's proud face.

Look at him winking at us. How cute is he??

Meet Camp Matthew Herndon.

Three generations of Herndon men. This is the first male "Herndon" grandson...the family name continues!

Finally mommy and baby boy. Kelly had to wait about 4 hours to see him. We don't have any photos of the 3 of them because as soon as they brought Camp to Kelly we left to give them time alone.

Update

My heart is heavy and tears are flowing as I post tonight. I just got a message letting me know that little Emme Grace Forbes passed away at 1:45 p.m. Sunday in the arms of her family. I don't know any details. I actually learned this info from a posted message to my last post. It's so hard to understand why God would allow this family to wait years to adopt this little girl, only to take her to heaven less than one year later. I know that I speak for her mommy when I say that whatever time they had with her on earth was more than worth the sacrifice. I am so thankful that she got to experience having a mommy and a daddy before she went to heaven.

Please continue to pray for the Forbes family. I cannot imagine the grief they must be in...but I know there are some who read who have experienced deep loss like this. Remember to lift them in prayer.

URGENT - PLEASE PRAY!

Hey everyone,
I just received an e-mail from a friend asking for prayer for a precious little girl adopted from China in 2008. Her name is Emme Forbes, and she is either 3 or 4, I'm not sure. I've met her family and they are precious.

Emme had surgery in Memphis yesterday (Sat.) to repair a hole in her stomach. She has been having stomach issues since they adopted her and they weren't sure why. In fact, she was in the hospital in China when they got there to adopt her. My friend said the doctors didn't expect her to make it through the surgery yesterday. They left her stomach open (for some reason) and went back in to close it up, saying they didn't expect her to make it through that surgery either.

My friends (the Jones who adopted their "Eden" from China, too) left early this morning to travel to be with them. I haven't received an update. Please pray for this family, the doctors, and sweet Emme. I know God can heal her little body. I praise Him that she is here receiving the best medical care and not still in that orphanage. To God be the glory for her little life!

Thank you all for praying and I will post an update if/as soon as I get one.